"Long Island Breakfast Club (LIBC) announces an Italian Heritage Event entitled 'An Evening in Tuscany' to be held on Thursday, October 29th, 2009! The LIBC is proud to salute the 2009 Honorees who have significantly distinguished themselves in the Italian Community, and continue to inspire and impact individuals by paying it forward on Long Island: Michéal Castaldo, Carol Donato, Rocco Iannarelli, Lisa Siano, Esq."
"The event will be held at The Westbury Manor, Jericho, NY from 6:00 to 11:00 pm. 'An Evening in Tuscany' will be a spectacular event and will include a reception, dancing, silent auction and much more! Information on ticket sales, corporate sponsorships, journal advertisements, prize donations and auction donations can be obtained by visiting the website."
When I first decided to do the movie CUT BACK: facing ageism I did a lot of research about what other people were doing in the field of aging. In 2006 the movie Andrew Jenks, Room 335 was at the Phoenix Film Festival and I was fortunate enough to get the chance to see it. I loved what Andrew did with his movie, documenting moving in and residing in a senior/assisted living facility in Florida and getting to know the residents and the connections that they made with each other, it gave us outsiders some insight into what it is like in senior/assisted living and made the viewer feel more sympathetic to the issues and choices (or sometimes lack of choices) that older adults have to face in their lives.
At the beginning of 2009 Steve Gurney decided to also move into a senior living facility. Steve "is the founder and publisher of Guide to Retirement Living SourceBook, a comprehensive resource he founded 20 years ago. He speaks regularly on a variety of topics andhas assisted hundreds of senior-serving organizations in reaching solutions to their challenges. Steve is a graduate of the innovative Masters of Management in Aging Services Program at University of Maryland, Baltimore County (UMBC)."
Because Steve helps counsel people making transitions he felt he needed to experience first hand what it is really like to live in one of these communities. He spent the early part of this year (leaving his family at home) documenting this trial.
Now at 43 years old, Steve Gurney, is "preparing to make another move to a different community. This time, however, his 6-year-old son, Asa, will be joining him."
"On August 19th, the duo will take up temporary residence at The Residences of Thomas Circle, a Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC) located in the heart of downtown Washington, D.C." "While Gurney has been regarded as an expert in the field of senior housing and eldercare, he came to the realization that he had not experienced the transition that he has advised thousands of people to take in his 20-year career. He states, 'This has been the most enlightening and thought-provoking experience that I have been engaged in throughout my career. I am at amazed at the perspective I have gained, and how much it has reinvigorated my passion for innovative solutions.'”
"Gurney has been documenting his experiences through a blog that has served as a vehicle for discussion and creative thoughts on aging and eldercare."
Bravo, Steve.
This past week has been full of activity for me and my husband, Jake. We went to New York to participate in the Long Island International Film Expo (LIIFE). CUT BACK: facing ageism was shown on Friday, July 10th along with a short documentary: Hicksville, 11801 – a student film by Jennifer Uihlein. Jennifer used archival film, personal family stories and images to show a sense of connection and community to the Long Island town. It was nice to meet her on stage for the Q&A after our films were shown.

in the lobby of the Bellmore Movies
It was very exciting to be part of the LIIFE. A special thanks to all my friends and family who came to support the film and me. Also thanks to the people who were in the film who came to see it. Vicki Ellner, President and Chair at Senior Umbrella Network of Brooklyn was there. Vicki has extensive experience in marketing, community outreach and business development in the healthcare, homecare and elder law arenas. We spoke of using the film as a teaching tool and possibly getting some exposure in Brooklyn and the other boroughs.
Elisabeth Zamarelli, affected by ageism when she was turned down for a promotion in 2006, was there. She made me feel great when she gave me updates of her success since the film was shot. She has won a beauty pageant, has gotten acting and modeling parts in several ad spots, is still teaching, and took on a part time job as an auxiliary police woman. There is no holding her back. Congratulations.
The Long Island Breakfast Club (whose 4 original members participated in the movie) sponsored the wine and cheese opening night party. Tina Janek and Stephanie Carlino with the assistance of Elise worked really hard to make the party a success. Their support is greatly appreciated. They have recently been covered by News 12 and CNN for the work they do "providing advocacy, support, career and employment counseling, referrals and good old-fashioned laughter to prepare mature individuals for productive employment."
I also met a very interesting woman, Siroon P. Shahinian, Ph.D., from the office of the Global Action on Aging (GAA), a United Nations accredited NGO (non-governmental organization) located at the Church Center for the United Nations. She expressed an interest in the film to possibly do a screening for her organization. It was wonderful to make contacts and share information.
Received some press coverage from Gloria Schramm, of the 405 Club, who did a great article on the film which was very sensitive to the participants called TOO YOUNG TO RETIRE BUT NOT TOO OLD TO WORK. She wrote: "Very often, those over 50, feel the loss of a job mostly keenly because they fear not being able to obtain a new one. These sentiments in the film are usually held by those who are still in the grief mode after job loss, before their own personal inner recovery and planning a strategy or game plan as to what they will aim for next."
Patricia Kitchen of Newsday also wrote a piece, Life to film: ageism in the workplace, about me, the film and the LIIFE, there is no online article but this is a link to the printed version.
I can now officially use the laurel leaves.

The balance of my week was spent enjoying some great events with Jake and my family in New York City and Long Island. I highly recommend the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame Annex featuring John Lennon: the New York City Years and MoCCA, the Museum of Comic and Cartoon Art featuring Sounds and Pauses, The Comics of David Mazzucchelli.
Long Island was as beautiful as could be after almost a month of rain. The foliage was lush and green as we drove out to the Hamptons on Sunday to relax and eat at one of our favorite restaurants, Babette's, in East Hampton. On Monday it was a great day taking the ferry over to Cherry Grove, Fire Island and enjoyed a drink on the Bay.
Now I am back in Phoenix, inspired to work on a new series of short films.
Exciting news: CUT BACK: facing ageism has been accepted in the Long Island International Film Expo to be shown on July 10, 3:30 pm at the Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Avenue, Bellmore, NY 11710.
Watch for an article in Newsday by Patricia Kitchen to be coming out soon. She called me after speaking to Tina Janek of the Long Island Breakfast Club. There are 13 people in the film from Long Island, from Brooklyn to Stony Brook, from experts to those affected by ageism. Thanks again to all who have participated.
Watch CUT BACK: facing ageism in its entirety on YouTube. I hope you enjoy watching the segments and that you will pass on the information to others that might be interested. Don't forget to watch the end credits to hear "Covered in Grey" a wonderful song, written and performed by my daughter, Megan Kelley.
April 27, 2009. Counseling Special Populations: Foundations for Multicultural Counseling is run by Dr. Chinwe Williams at the University of Central Florida.
Ari Kollangi, a grad student of Dr. Williams, wrote to ask if he could use the film CUT BACK: facing ageism in his course presentation. "I would like to share this film with my class as I have been assigned to share aspects of ageism and other age related disparities for seniors; an often neglected human demographic. I am sure that the power and clarity of the documentary will be able to express a message that my class will be able to appreciate and add to their competence and concern as we all progress toward mental health licensure" said Mr. Kollangi. Of course, I wanted to help.
Part of the course description is as follows:
This course will emphasize: (1) the development of competency in the three areas with a major emphasis on the self-awareness component while increasing the students' knowledge of and skills addressing prejudice, racism, and oppression as it pertains to working with persons from diverse backgrounds. Self-awareness, knowledge, and skill development needed to counsel members of racially and ethnically diverse populations (1) developing levels of personal awareness about stereotypes, and learning how feelings and attitudes about these may impact counseling with individuals from diverse populations, (2) reviewing knowledge and research in the area of multicultural counseling, (3) developing and/or enhancing skills useful in counseling individuals from differing populations.
After the presentation, Mr. Kollangi wrote me a very nice email about how the film was received:
"The film was a perfect addition and the students felt both a clearer connection toward awareness of their own age biases, as well as a deep appreciation for the individuals in the film who bravely participated in your work . . . Also, as a student and future mental health counselor I was touched by your use of personal reflection and candor in the film. Please know that your message of awareness for the unfortunate effects of ageism were well received and inspired other students to critically evaluate their own biases during a closing conversation after my report."
I am very happy that this film was useful in Mr. Kollangi's course work and that I could help get the message to his students in Central Florida.